Benedita LumeA daddy brings the sense of a roof over the head, a hand that stays firm when the weather turns. This kind of dream speaks to the presence of a guiding force that keeps things from falling into disorder. We look for this strength when we need to know that the boundaries of our lives are firm.
The weight of this authority can feel heavy when the protection turns into a demand for obedience. I know the way a sharp word from a man in charge can make a person shrink. You have the grit to stay upright even when the guidance feels like a weight.
The absence of the one who should lead leaves a void where the structure used to be. When you see an absent father in a dream, it means the protection you rely on has pulled away, leaving you to face the wind alone.
A sick father shows a weakening of the very power that keeps the household secure. This dream tells you that the authority you look to is losing its strength, which makes the world feel less certain.
The dream of becoming a father marks a shift where the protection moves from the outside to the inside. You are finding that the strength you once looked for in others is now growing within your own hands.
My mother, father and I were running errands in another city. As we arrived home, my father was in an angry/upset mood, complained he didnt have coffee the whole trip and he didnt find toilet paper. I taught my mom not to take his anger. Somehow in his upset mood, both he and I ended up on the floor and I confronted him: Did you teach your boys to get toilet paper? No! The tension was gone, and we laughed, and got up using each other’s feet against each other. We were smiling/happy in the end.
Dear Reader,
Your dream means confrontation, anger and insecurity. This dream hints the situation that you need to confront is an extremely emotional one. You need to express your anger and feelings more directly. You believe others can see your shortcomings or insecurities.